There is always a choice to be made from all the experiences we go through in life. For even when we see no choice, no control, there is always something hidden that we can uncover. Something beneficial wether it is for our mental or spiritual growth.
You can take your negative experiences as devastating and let them destroy you, or you can learn from them and take them as an opportunity to grow stronger.
One of the reasons we keep experiencing the same things over and over is perhaps because we haven’t really and truly learned the lessons that those certain experiences have to teach us.
When you come to the realization that you can be affected negatively or you can learn from all experiences, then you will be able to march forward and attain growth as a result.
As your experiences grow, so does your wisdom.
Simply remember that you can make conscious decisions in terms of how you choose for certain experiences to affect your life, whether positively or negatively, that is your choice.
And once you’re able to make your own choices you will have more control over your life rather than having experiences happen to you randomly.
When you live life by default, many things could happen, and it comes down to the mental conditioning but also the choices and actions you make.
Bad things can happen to us any time, but we can also make positive things happen. When instead of living life by default, we decide to take the wheel of our life, then we have more chances of steering it the direction we desire.
We can have goals and aspirations, the things that give us purpose. The things that give us a higher reason to exist and go about our daily lives. Full of meaning.
Learning from bad experiences
Nobody likes to have negative experiences, but even when they arrive we have the conscious ability to let them affect us or extract something useful out of them.
Unpleasant experiences are tough to deal with for everyone. But wether we like it or not we are bound to having to experience them. As you consition your mind, body, and spirit energy, you will be better prepared to deal with these situations in a better and more conscious way. Allowing ourselves to take only what valuable lessons we have gained from them.
Bad experiences are there to allow us to become better as long as we learn to overcome them, they are something that allows us to grow.
Photo of tunnel credit: Transformer18