When it comes to attractiveness, the first thing that comes to mind is how a person looks. This is why some people want to look good on the outside without realizing that there is more to attractiveness than just physical beauty. In order to be attractive to others, we also need to invest in our talents and skills.
There are various ways we can be more attractive without putting too much focus on our physical attributes. You can bank on your special abilities by developing them. If you are good at sports, you can join some sports clinics that will allow you to hone your skills.
If you like playing musical instruments, you can also develop your musical ability because it is also considered a tool of expression. You should also wear a smile because it is also considered the best accessory you can wear.
We do not need to change ourselves to fit a social ideal in order to be more attractive. Instead, Science says, what is most important is to develop our own personality and have the desire to engage in deep relationships with other people.
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1. Music Cultivates Individuality
In a 2014 study, researchers asked about 1,500 individuals (whose average age was 28) to rate the attractiveness of different composers according to the music they make. The results showed that people preferred music that is more complicated in style and structure. They also say that they would more likely develop long term relationships with those who compose more complex music.
Music is a tool for expression. Our personality and tastes develop as we explore different kinds of music. So it might be a good idea for you to start varying your choice of music and even learn new musical instruments!