A hectic work schedule, bills to worry about, a chaotic home life and bad habits (unhealthy eating, smoking, sedentary lifestyle etc.), can all lead to lots of stress for all of us. However, did you know that it’s possible live a happy and fulfilling life free of stress and worries?
Yes, that’s right. Happiness is there for you everyday to find and experience, so stop worrying yourself about things that you have little or no control over, and start living the life that you deserve. Here are some useful tips to help you live a stress-free life:
Change Your Perspective
Have you ever wondered why you’re always stressed out while someone you know (a colleague, friend etc.) seems to be happy all the time? It all comes down to how you choose to look at life. Life can be beautiful or miserable depending on how you look at it. Most of the time, we develop stress due to negative self-talk and false beliefs.
If you can’t control what you’re worried about right now (e.g. a delayed train, the weather etc.), then it’s better to let it go. Instead of blaming others or beating yourself up, try to shift your perspective about the situation.
Embrace what life throws at you with gratitude. What am I talking about? Instead of letting a bad weather stress you up, why not be thankful that at least you’re alive, or that you have a great job to provide for your family.
There are so many people out there who need help, so shift your focus off you and extend a helping hand to someone else. You’ll find life more enjoyable and meaningful when you learn to appreciate what you have instead of dwelling on what’s lacking.
Do One Thing At A Time
This is one of the simplest and most effective ways you can practice even right now to reduce your stress and worries. Make a list of what you’re supposed to do, and break them down into smaller tasks that you can complete in say an hour or so.
Clear all distractions such as phones, televisions set etc. around you, and focus on doing one task at a time. When you cross something off your checklist, you’ll feel a sense of accomplishment and more motivated to undertake the next task. This will help you in the long run to eliminate stress related to a heavy work load.