To change an experience simply think about these following questions:
1. What makes you feel negative or positive?
2. What experience are you ready to change?
3. Take action
Remember that you are your own best creator and manifesting being, something inherited to us by the source of it all, whatever you want to call it.
Everything is energy, everything and everyone has a purpose. Life is what one chooses to make it, we only need to wake up from the long sleep.