Whatever you believe, in terms of the attitude you carry with you on a daily basis, you begin to manifest. As you focus on where you put your energy, you begin to open yourself up to regaining your own power to change your life and create new experiences that you actually want to experience.
Here is a quick sample of the general attitude you can take:
I can’t = full stop blocking yourself
I try = spinning your wheels in the same spot
I can = growth, moving forward
These are the kinds of paths you can take.